The story I’m about to tell you is based on the true story. I hope you can learn anything from the man on the following story.

There was a man who was a resident in New York City and also a web designer. One day he took a subway in Brooklyn District to go somewhere. And when the train was on the way, he saw a girl, a drop-dead gorgeous girl not far from him. And he fell in love at the first sight with her. He had never had his feeling that way before. She was so pretty to him. And he wanted to meet and asked for her name soon after the train arrived at the station.

And when the train arrive at the station, he was about to go to the girl and meet her. Unfortunately, however, there were too many passengers that cause his sight was hindered by the passengers walking down the subway. Finally, he lost the girl and after searching for her everywhere, he still couldn’t find her.

Day after day passed by, and he was more deeply fell in love with the girl he met at the subway days before and his feeling of love was stronger than before until one day he decided to find the way or do whatever to find the girl.

He finally committed to find the girl. His willingness to meet her was unstoppable. He then began to make a website. In the website, he wrote all about her physical appearance and also wrote a message to let him knew if someone had met her before or knew her or knew the information about her.

In just hours after publishing the website, many responses came to him. There were some people sympathizing him, some people gave courage and support, some people gave advice or ways to help him finding the girl, and some girls even offered their love to him.

And his hard effort was successful. There was a girl who confessed that she knew the girl he searched for. And the good news was that the man could finally find and meet the girl he was in deep love with. The end of the story was unknown. The man didn’t want to tell more.



Message for readers:

It doesn’t matter that the continuation of the story is unknown. But we can learn from the man’s commitment on the story above. You probably wonder how he can find the girl. There are about 11 millions residents in New York City. How can he find the girl in a very large city like New York is? You perhaps think that it’s impossible to find her out. But this is the true power of willingness. Impossibility turns into possibility by the power of willingness and commitment.

How strong your willingness is? Do you have strong will to achieve success in your life? Many people want to achieve success, to be richer, healthier, luxurious housing and car, higher promotion in work etc. If you ask them whether they want better and more successful life, they’ll absolutely say yes. But we probably wonder why still so many people do not get what every other people want. There are only minority of people who live in success. This depends on the will that everyone has. They want everything in this life. But they just want it. They do not have strong will to achieve them. It doesn’t matter whether you can achieve it or not, but all that matter is that you has the will to achieve it or not. You can’t get what you want if you simply do not have the will to achieve that because you think that it isn’t a must. If you feel that it doesn’t matter if you finally achieve it or not, you will act differently with when you act using strong will and you will not use your maximum potency and can you guess what results you will get? You’ll get the results you’ll never expect to have.

There’s nothing can stop you to achieve whatever you want to be, to do and to have if you really have the strong willingness to do whatever it takes to achieve them as the Chinese proverb says, “If you have the will, you can move the mountain.”

If you have the will, you can do everything that seems to be impossible for everyone to do. Your will is like the fuel to boost your action toward success. Nothing is impossible when you really have the will. How strong your willingness is will determine how big you’ll achieve. Simply take a look at the story above. Everything seems to be impossible, but the man can finally prove that he can. That’s the power of will. Nothing can stop you and you will slide fast like a train.

You can’t just want success. It’s not enough. If you really want to achieve success, you must have strong will to achieve that. Your willingness will make you having commitment. By having commitment, you’ll do everything to accomplish even when everything seems to be hard and impossible. You will also find the way to achieve your success. The way will be given to you only if you have the will to look for it.

As the addition, the power of willingness will drive and keep you in track of your success. You are you today because of your will, you achieve success because of your will, and you can be, do and have what you truly want because of your will. If you have strong willingness, everything in this world is very possible for you. To get success, you need to use your will power upon yourself.

Remember this proverb: “WHERE THERE IS A WILL, THERE IS A WAY.”

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Faith plays as an important role in our life. Every person with great achievement will start something with irresistible faith. To achieve whatever you desire, you must begin with the goals or targets that you have set before. If you believe that your goals can be achieved, it will absolutely give you the power and encourage you to take action and do whatever it takes to achieve those.

Your strong faith will change into strong motivation to achieve success. The stronger your faith, the stronger your motivation and spirit to make your goals come true. One of success factors is having incredibly strong faith that comes into main tools for success of successful persons.

I think you must know Sylvester Stallone well. His current sequel movie RAMBO IV was released in January. Besides of that, he is also famous for his ROCKY sequel movie. When for the first time Stallone offered his ROCKY movie, almost all of the film producers paid no attention or turn their face. They asked and wondered if he was so crazy to offer his movie with him as the main actor. He was not famous that day and had played for few times only. After trying many times, great opportunity came to him. There was a producer paid big money for his movie, but he wasn’t allowed to star his own movie. However, once again, he disapproved it. At the same time, he lived in poverty and sold is loved dog just to survive. He didn’t forget what his dreams were. He wanted to be an actor of his movie. Although the offer was increased until reaching 1 million USD, he insisted on refusing until one day a producer gave up and let him to be the main actor and paid him about 35,000 dollars. Finally ROCKY was made and he played the role as main actor. ROCKY gained great success after being released and the fame of his name began.

Do you think if he wasn’t consistent to reject any offers from the producers, he will be like he is today? I think we will never see and watch ROCKY and RAMBO today.

So, how we can believe and have strong faith. There’s a simple trick you can do increase your faith. You can use affirmation and emotion in it. Affirmation is saying positive words to yourself repeatedly. However, if you just use affirmation without combining your positive emotion, you will gain nothing. Emotion can be the feeling of succeeding in achieving your goals or you can use movement while using affirmation. Jogging is great time to use affirmation while you run and make movement. Sooner or later your faith will increase and you will believe that you can achieve your goals. The stronger your faith, the faster your action and the closer your dreams and goals will come to you. [I will explain for detail about using affirmation in the next articles].

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If you often work on a computer and use Microsoft office program, you must have heard the concept of WYSWYG (What You See is What You Get). It means you’ll get what you exactly see on the computer screen. The result of your printed project will be exactly the same as it is on the computer screen with no change and difference.

In personal success there’s also a concept called WYTWYG (What You Think is What You Get). What you are and what you have had today is the result of what you have thought in the past. Either you’re aware or not, successful and wealthy person always think about success and wealth and in the other side, the poors always think about how poor and unlucky they are. What they think about in their mind will be reflected in their life. It all depends on what pictures in their mind are.

If you always and often think about poverty and negative things, you have bigger chance to manifest it into your own life. And if you always and often think about success, wealth and prosperity, you are going to have better chance to manifest it into your life. Many people do not know the dangerous effect of thinking about negative things and they are prisoned and taken over by them. But the advantage is that positive and constructive thought is hundreds of time better than negative thought and what you think about do not manifest instantly. I can’t imagine if you think about being hit by a high-speed running car and it manifest in an instant, you’ll be in great danger, right? There’s always delay time before what you think about is going to manifest and come into you. But what you think about frequently and consistently will come to you.

  • If you think about success, you will attract success.
  • If you think about being wealthy, you will attract wealth.
  • If you think about prosperity, you will attract prosperity.
  • If you think about being healthy, you will attract health.
  • If you think about having good relationship, you will attract it too.
  • If you think about negative things, you will attract negative things into your life.

Being selective about what you are about to put in your mind is good action to do. Because your mind doesn’t recognize good or bad something will be, it’s your responsibility to choose and select and put only something good or positive in your mind.

Remember that what you think about is what you get. What you think about, you will attract. If you want something good comes to you, put it in your mind and otherwise making your own mind to be dirty and full of something negative and destructive, you will see the results. Take care and treat your mind as if it is your beautiful garden and it will give you what you want. It will be worth something you put in your mind.

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One day, there was a young man who was always sad, lived in poverty and being alone. He wondered where the happiness was. He asked everyone to find out the answer, but he got unexpected answer. It didn’t make him satisfied. He kept on finding out the answer until he met an 80 years old man who lived alone with his loyal servant. His wife had died 10 years ago. He was also blind, could only sit down on a wheel chair because of his disability to stand up and walk. He was served and helped by his servant in his daily life.

Out of there, the young man saw that the old man always smiled and looked happy, although he was in bad condition.

Wondering how it could be, the young man asked the old man how he could always be happy while he was blind and was not able to walk, and in the other side, he (the young man) wasn’t feel happy although he was still young and had better condition than the old man had. And the old man answered happily, “I’m happy because I choose to be happy. The happiness is something that you’ve decided at the beginning. No matter if you’re happy or sad, but how I manage myself to be happy or sad. I’ve decided to be happy whatsoever. That’s the decision I always make every single day no matter how hard the life is. I have a choice, I can cry and complain about how terrible I am now, or be happy and satisfy about something I have had today. Everyday is a gift and I will pay my attention to my happiness and sweet memory I’ve ever had. We live once in a life time. I choose to focus on my happiness only and my first advice for you is to save as your much happiness as possible in your mind and memory and put out as your much sadness as possible out of your memory.”

After hearing the answer from the old man, the young man became aware and decided to be happy the next day ahead.

Message for readers:

Whatever your condition you have today, sad or happy with your own life, you have the power and control to choose. You can choose to be happy or you can choose not to be happy right here, right now. No matter what you’ve chosen to be, you still have your own choice. The choice is in your hand. Why you should fill your life up with negative and destructive feeling. Instead, fill your life up with whatever feeling you want to have.

There are some tips to attain unconditional happiness:

1. Decided and choose to be happy right now.

2. Always be happy and put gratitude for what you have and who you are today.

3. Free your mind from negative thought.

4. Give more than you can give, and

5. Take less than you can take.

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Many people in this world want to achieve success. Unfortunately, however, they often give up too soon before accomplish what they truly desire. When failure comes to them, they aren’t able to let them to try for more one more time. They finally stop from chasing their dreams they have set before. That is the last time they put effort soon after they achieve failure.

You must know too that motivating yourself to achieve success you want is the crucial thing. It’s important to motivate yourself simply because there are too many obstacles outside you that can steal your precious dreams. They perhaps come from your family, relatives, close friends, couples, or anyone that do not support you from what you are trying to be, to do and to have and the worst is sometimes some of them hating you and do not want you to be successful. They will block you either directly or indirectly. Others come from your environment or failure and other results that you do not ever expect to have. They indirectly make you feel down and make your spirit lost. That is the time that you must motivate yourself so you cannot affected by them. By motivating yourself, you will be stronger and better in overcoming those obstacles and cause you to be motivated for your real destination you want to go.

You can motivate yourself anytime anywhere without depending on other factors. If you think you can be motivated by attending seminars, training or anything, you’re right. Seminars and other trainings about self development are really important for you to equip yourself with the weapons to achieve your success. But it’s impossible for you to attend them everyday and the fact is that there are no motivational seminars held everyday. You can just be motivated and feel like you have great power after attending one motivational seminar, but if you do not motivate yourself when something bad comes to you, it’s hardly for you to achieve success because if you do not motivate yourself, you will have no motivation and spirit of success. No big achievement is achieved without motivation and spirit involved.

The secret of being motivated is simple. Just make yourself motivated because of something inside you, not outside you. You can choose to be motivated and happy right now because the control is in you. But if you think that you can only motivated after one seminar or when the perfect time, condition or people come, you are totally wrong. They are factors outside you. You are not able to control and influence them. Do you wait for someone or something to make you motivated? What if they never come? There’s no perfect time or perfect condition for being motivated. The best time to be motivated is right now, not later. You can be motivated now, you can be happy now, you can be in full spirit of success now. Why must wait to do that if you can do it right now in just seconds or minutes. Procrastination will only waste your time. Don’t wait, be motivated right now and take your track of your success. It’s well worth your effort.

Every successful people also have failure as the part of being successful. The difference is that they keep being motivated when failure comes. They will learn from it and even put harder effort to achieve success. No success without failure first. There’s a quote that says if you want to achieve more success, you must multiply your failure. I agree with that. Someone who is afraid of being stung by swarm of bees does not deserve for honey. It’s the same as if you are afraid of failure, you will never achieve success. Motivate yourself that you can achieve success like every other successful people, you have the great power to be what you want to be. Nothing in this world can stop you if you are fully motivated for what your dreams are. Success is your right.

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