Many people ask the difference between successful people with unsuccessful people. Many people want to know why so many people have read a lot of success and motivational books, attended so many motivational trainings and learnt various kind of techniques and methods of awakening self-potency, but they do not succeed to change life. They keep on staying the same in living with no improvement.
Many people are unable to become successful because they do not have good understanding about the difference between want something vs. really want something. If someone is already able to differentiate and understand the concept between want vs. really want and apply it into their own daily life, they will never find the failure. If we talk about wanting something, everybody in this world wants success. There is nobody in this world does not want success as well as welfare, prosperity, wealth and many more. However, they just want it. Only a few people who really really want success. That’s why people who really live in great success are minority. The successful people are people who really have strong will to become successful. They are successful because they really want it, they have wonderful will, so that they find out the way and finally are successful. That separates them with the unsuccessful people.
That can be the proof that if you have been in the level of really want, something that seems to be impossible to reach will turn into possible for you to reach. If you really want success, you will become unstoppable, nobody or nothing can stop you from making success yours. As I said before, most of people just want, not really want something. They have no will to achieve success. To make success come into your life, it doesn’t matter whether you can or not, but the problem is that you really want it or not. It quite hard to achieve success without strong will inside you, because you are going to think that it’s not a must that will cause you not to awake your biggest potency.
Nothing can stop you from doing, being and having what you really want if you have unstoppable will. Nothing is impossible for you if you really want. How big your will, will determine how big your achievement. It’s not enough to want success, but you must really want to achieve it. Strong will are going to generate commitment. When you have commitment, you will successfully achieve something that most of people think it’s impossible. Commitment will make you doing whatever it takes to realize your success either in joy or sorrow. You will also find the way to facilitate your journey into success.
To become successful, you need to use your will and apply it upon you. Success will come to you and everybody who really want it, really have commitment to achieve it no matter how long or how hard the process is. When people say that it’s impossible, people who really want success will act to prove that everything is possible. When people give excuses of why they can’t, people who really want success will find the way to achieve their goals. 
One day, there was a fisherman sailed to the sea to get some fish. As usual, he used his boat to go to the middle of the sea and prepared the net to catch the fish. He got a lot of fish that day and he was so excited. But he also got a mysterious box in the net. He didn’t know what that was and what was in the box. Therefore, he brought it to the seaside to check it out. After reaching the seaside, he immediately put it and began to open it. And suddenly thick smoke came out of the box and a few moments later the smoke turned into a giant genie. The fisherman was so surprise.
The genie was so happy because he could finally come out to feel the fresh air after being locked in the box for long time. After seeing the fisherman, the genie said, “I’m free now. I was so angry with someone who locks me in the box. Therefore, I promise to myself that I will kill whoever saves me out of this box. It’s time for you to die.”
But before the genie did it, the fisherman asked him, “Ok, ok. You can kill me. But before that, I have a question for you. You are so big, but I do not understand how you can get in and get out of the small box like this? Can you explain it to me? Show me how to do it.” And the genie said,” Ok, I will show you. I get in the box first so you will understand how to do it.” And the genie got in the box. Soon after the genie entered the box, the fisherman locked the box quickly so that the genie couldn’t come out anymore. He said, “Ha. Now you have been locked again and cannot kill me. Good bye.” The genie begged for him to set him free, but the fisherman wasn’t so foolish to trust in him. After that, he threw the box to the sea and went home with his fish he netted.
Message for readers:
We always have problems in our life. Every time we must face the problems and find the way to solve it. However, no matter how complicated the problems are, there will always be the ways to solve them. There are ways for problems that happen to us. Most important part is that we face them wisely with the clear and relax thought. If we worry or even act recklessly, that will not help you more to overcome the problems. You will even make the situation worse. Otherwise, if you think clearly and act with common sense, you will find the way to solve them. If you cannot solve it yourself, don’t be shy to ask for help from other people. Maybe they can give you suggestion or the way out for your problems. The help from others will be helpful because the thought from many people is much more powerful than single thought. Their help will probably inspire and drive you to the way for your problems. So, if the problems come, it’s better to find the way to solve it instead of feeling under pressure.
What makes poor people can finally be rich and live in abundance? What makes people who want to be successful really achieve their success? What makes people have strong will to make their dreams come true?
The most elementary answer to those questions is the DECISION. Your decision today makes the difference in your own life, your decision brings you here today, it’s your decision that will determine what you will be in the future, your decision will determine your aim and goals. Everything that you have done is the result of what you have decided to do. You study in one university because of your decision, you work in your office today because of your decision, you have a business because of your decision, you’re in the relationship with a man/woman because of your decision. Your happiness and sadness is the result of your decision, you fail just because of your decision, you give up because you decide to give up, you read this article also because of your decision to read this.
You must also realize that if you do not make a decision, it is a decision too, because you have decided not to make a decision. Even though you deny that other factors have affected your decision, you must know that it is decision, because you decide to let those factors affect your decision you want to make.
You are responsible for your own life. You are the judge of yourself that make the decision upon you. You make the decision of what you must do or be. If you do not make a decision, anyone else will make a decision for you. It’s your life. If you decide to be a successful man/woman, don’t let everyone affect you. The base of all action is the decision. Once you make a intense decision, you will act on it. You will have commitment to work on it. So, your decision today will form your future.
You must know that we learn everything for unlimited space of time. As long as we live, we’ll learn everything either we’re aware of it or not. If you say that we stop learning after we have graduated from the university or college, you’re exactly wrong. The knowledge we learn from the school until we’re in the university is a small part of all the entire knowledge we know in our life. There are many things in this world that are not taught in the class. It’s our job to learn and know it. The only time when we stop learning is when we pass away. So, we can say that from the day we were born, we have begun to learn everything.
Let’s see babies. They learn the signals or gestures from his parents. They try to remember anything around him, try to understand the words from human, try to learn the language, try to say some words that he often hear of.
When they grow and become children, they begin to say more words, to take and grab everything with his hand, try to crawl and then stand and walk, play, try to remember what is good or bad to do, what is allowed or forbidden to do.
When the children go to school for the first time, they begin learning some lesson, subject, knowledge, and activity in the school, make friend with others and learning more everything new from them and learning everything that they don’t when they are at home.
When the children grow up to teenagers, they learn more complicated things. They learn about love and how to win the heart of the girl/boy they interested in, how to make more friends, how to be in relationship. They learn more things outside of what his family has taught him. They also learn the knowledge in the university related to what they want to specialize for their future in job or business.
When they are adult, they learn everything for their life, they learn to work, to start a business, to earn money for their living, to self-support themselves, to build a family, to be good parents. In order to earn money for their living, they must have knowledge related to their job or business as their source of income. In order to build a family and be good parents, they must have ability to take care of their children, to give the best for them and have the knowledge about how to build a good relationship among them and their children and couples.
When they are old, they keep learning. They know more what they don’t know before and have more experience that has been collected so far and so on.
So we may conclude that never-ending learning applies for everyone. We remember, recall, learn, pay attention or even master everything surrounding us directly or indirectly. We are surrounded by information and knowledge anywhere anytime. This is also applies for everyone who want to achieve success. Success isn’t impossible for you if you want to. Success belongs to you and everyone. You can learn how to be successful; you can learn the ways, skills, tips-tricks, knowledge and then apply them into yourself. If you learn and take action to apply the secret of success that has been applied the same way by successful people, you’ll get the same result. If the knowledge works for them, it works for you exactly the same way. There are many source of knowledge if we want to be a successful one. There are many books, articles, audio-books, seminars and trainings about achieving success. You can read books or articles written by a successful author. You must know that to make a book is not an easy work to do. All that written in a book is collected from a lot of their experience and trials-errors in the way toward success for many years and you can save much time by learning and applying them for a little money so that you don’t fall or fail as they did. Another benefit is you do not need to find yourself the new way of success that may waste many years of your time. Knowledge, skill and experience for years can be learnt in just a book. Imagine how much time and energy you can save. You can learn everything in very short time.
Another way is you can also attend seminars or trainings by successful speakers or trainers. You can learn directly from them. They share their knowledge and skill and you apply it. Your opportunity to be successful is widely opened nowadays. We live in abundance of source that can surely bring us into higher success. We live in the information era where people who have information or knowledge will rule the world. All you need is learning and keep learning. The more you learn, the more you have the knowledge. The more you have knowledge and apply it, the more successful you are. But keep in mind that you learn only the skill or knowledge that has been proven to be successful for everyone. Don’t learn anything that will make you getting the results you do not want. Besides that, you can also learn from people that have been successful in their job or business or other aspects you are going to achieve. Learn from them exactly what they do that makes them successful and you can be like them if you do exactly what they already do. If they can, you can do it, too. Everything can be learnt.
So push yourself to keep learning because it will drive you faster and further than you are today. It will not harm you by learning valuable thing, otherwise you’ll get benefits in the future. By constant and never-ending learning, you will move much further into better life and you’ll be greater in your area you’re involved in. The consequence is you will gain the biggest rewards in the form of good results, appreciation and satisfaction you’ll never imagine. Success is your right and success is yours.
I think you agree with me that you’ve ever been a child before you become what you are today. A person is always born from a baby, and then become a child until we are today. In this article, I am going to talk about the wonderful behavior and attitude of a child you must learn. This behavior and attitude are very important for your journey to success you dream of. Without this behavior, you will lose your way to success and it’s pretty hard to achieve it. If you apply this concept, I believe you will never fail, you’ll achieve your dream and vision no matter how hard the process to achieve it.
Pay attention to a child who is trying to stand up properly. If you have a child of this kind, pay attention on him/her. You know that a child who is able to crawl using his/her two hands and knees will try to go to the next step, standing and then walking. When a child try to stand up, you know that they seldom to be successful to stand up for the first time he put his effort. Can you see that a child must try and sometimes fall down many times before he finally can stand up and then walking around. Sometimes when he falls down, he cries loudly because of pain. However, no matter how hard it is and how painful of falling down, he keep trying. When he falls down, he probably cries or not, but he stand up one more time. When he falls down again, he tries again to stand up. No matter how many times falling down, he will try one more time until he finally made it through. Sometimes his parents support and encourage him to try more when he fails. This behavior is so wonderful. You can get good lessons from a child. A child always tries to do the best to stand up. He knows no fear, he knows nothing about giving up. He doesn’t surrender. This behavior makes a child can finally stand up. If a child stops trying again after falling down, you must know that the child will never walk. He will sit down and crawl for his entire life.
Another example is when a child is trying to ride a bicycle. It’s the same way as the time he learnt to walk. It’s almost impossible for him to ride the bicycle with great success for the first time. He must have fallen down many times. Sometimes it’s so painful because he probably hurt his knees or feet. But again, he does not surrender. A child never let the failure stop him to try one more time. The pain means nothing for him. The pain is not more than the happiness he will get after he can ride it. His strong effort combined with his pain and tears make him finally successful in riding a bike. The child finally makes it one more time.
Do you get the point here? What behavior does a child have that make him successful in standing up and riding a bike like examples above? It is the unstoppable effort, NEVER GIVE UP. When you do not commit to give up, you will never fail in what you do or what you are achieving. You will finally win what you want because you do not think to stop achieving your target before you reach for it. You will also have an irresistible commitment to keep on fighting for making your dream comes true. Nobody or nothing is this world can stop you if you give no excuses for giving up.
I ever hear a quote says, “The enemies I feared most is the enemies that never give up.” It’s always true that if you don’t want to give up, it means that you do not want to be a loser. All that you know is that you must win. Your thought is geared with victory and success in your life. There is no giving up in your mind, there’s only success and victory. This quality makes significant difference between people who achieve their success and people who don’t.
People who give up too soon will surely never obtain what he really wants. They let the failure stops them to continue their hunt for success. They also tell themselves to convince them that they do not deserve the success just because they fail once or twice. They give up quickly. They can’t survive from the failure, disappointment and barrier that is temporary. They believe that the failure indicates their disability to be a successful figure. They do not realize that failure is temporary. The successful people also felt the failure and disappointed, but they didn’t give up. They learn from that failure and keep on trying one more time. They know that the failure is the road to the last destination: success. When unsuccessful people give up as the failure comes, the successful will keep standing up.
The failure is the stepping-stone to success. There’s no success without failure. Failure is common for you and everyone. Failure isn’t a disaster. Failure is nothing for you if you never let it rules your life. Sometimes you feel that it’s too hard to chase your dream, but you must know that no matter how hard it is, you will get it if you never ever stop. You do not really fail unless you convince yourself that you have failed. If you sure that you fail, then it’s over. Your dream of success will disappear from your mind and buried deeply. Don’t bury your dream just because a few failures. Failure cannot hurt you, why you must fear of failure, why you must give up. You know that when you were a child, you felt a lot of pain when you were learning to walk and ride a bicycle, but the word “give up” never come out of your mouth. You didn’t stop until you made it. Let’s see the famous people you know well. Thomas Alva Edison failed thousands times before inventing bulbs, Abraham Lincoln failed for many years before becoming the U.S. President, Sanders got rejected many times before someone bought his recipe and many more. You can imagine that if they give up before they succeed, they will not be famous today. You can also find it yourself around you. Just because they didn’t receive failure, they become the successful people who change our world. Success is for you and everyone who do not give up to achieve it. If you always face the failure many times without giving up, you will be stronger that you are today. It will sharpen your mentality. If you want success, you must be ready for failure. The more failure you get, the faster the success will come to you on condition that you do not give up. I also heard someone said that if you want success, get more failure. It’s simple to understand because the more the failure, the stronger you are. The stronger you are, the less the chance you give up. The less the chance giving up, the bigger your chance to achieve success.
Giving up is easy work to do. Giving up is easy to say. Don’t do that useless thing. There’s no reward for you to give up. Nothing you will get by giving up. However, the biggest reward you will achieve is success when you do not give up chasing your precious dream. If you finally make your dreams come true, you deserve that reward. That’s the result of not giving up. So promise yourself to try one more time if failure comes to you. Make commitment not to give up. Recall the dreams you’ve made before, don’t let it go. Other people have harder and bigger failure, but they successfully succeed and so are you. Success will yours if you never give up.
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